"Stop acting like it’s been decided, you don’t have the noose around your neck. You don’t. Right now you might be looking up at the executioner’s thing… but they have not put the noose around your neck, and neither have you."
The local group of D&D people frustrate me now.
I had created Pumpkin Blossom my awesome witch fairy. She saved their asses countless times, dragged all of them up a mountain with spells, exposed the location of the treasure… I was rocking it. But then I got shit on for “of COURSE the girl in our group is a stupid ass fairy, HAS TO BE THE PRETTY GIRLY ONE TEE HEE GIVE ME ATTENTION”.
I didn’t go back.
I finally got lonely and decided to try again, so I came up with a warrior-based character, badass, scarred up, etc. I don’t like her, but she’s useful, and not feminine. The reaction when I suggested the character? “OH LOOK AT YOU. TRYING TO BE ONE OF THE GUYS. GOD, TRY HARDER WHY DON’T YOU? STILL WANTING ATTENTION, HUH?”
And this is why I hate geeky boys.
(update: there was evidently a forum post that said “maybe she should try joining again when she isn’t a lard ass”, but it was deleted when someone reminded him that my husband was the head of the group and would see it when he got home from work tonight)
"Three people is hardly an army.."
Miss India Navneet Kaur Dhillon in Ritu Kumar
Sometimes I’m confused by Canadian stereotypes but then I realize that we literally dump maple syrup onto the snow, wait for it to get gooey and then scoop it up with a stick and eat it
you better not be fucking with me canada is this for real
it is all too real
I would like to thank everyone that’s ordered year-end tarot readings from me. I haven’t really advertised them, but people have found them on the tarot tab of my blog and requested them.
All of the money is going towards January 14th, what would have been Mason’s due date, for me to have a special day of recovery. It may not seem like a big thing to anyone else, but… I haven’t really taken the time to mourn, grieve, and do something really nice for myself in his memory. So that’s what it’ll be used for.
Thank you again. So many of you have been so generous with me.
My mom and I have had three one-hour long calls in a row that didn’t involve arguments about religion or politics… or my sexuality/lifestyle. We talk about interior decorating, recipes, cats, and my health. To be fair, I haven’t come right out and explained my current lifestyle to her, but I accidentally mention certain people a little too much and I’m sure she’s figured it out by now anyway. She just… I made it very clear that if she wanted a relationship with me, she had to butt out of all that and not condemn me for my choices. I think she’s finally taking it seriously.
… I have a positive relationship with my mother for the first time in almost a full decade.